Should we take requests

As a mobile DJ, few topics spark more debate than this one: Should DJs take requests from guests at events?

It might seem like a no-brainer at first—play what people want, right? But like most things in the DJ world, it’s not that simple. Whether it’s a wedding, prom, corporate event, or private party, taking requests can either elevate the night or completely throw off your carefully curated vibe. Let’s dig into the pros, cons, and some middle-ground approaches—and we’d love to hear your take, too.

Why Taking Requests Can Be Great:

1. It Makes Guests Feel Included:Let’s be honest—when a guest hears their song get played, it makes them feel like a VIP. They hit the dance floor with extra energy and might even get others to join in.

2. It Gives You Real-Time Feedback:Requests can serve as a quick gauge for the crowd’s mood. Sometimes, a song you hadn’t even considered can become the turning point in the night.

3. It Creates Memorable Moments:From the grandma requesting ABBA to the groomsman begging for some 2000s throwback, these requests often become part of the night’s story.

Why Some DJs Say “No Thanks”:

1. Not All Requests Fit the Vibe:Just because it’s a good song doesn’t mean it’s right now. One left-field request can kill a packed dance floor if it doesn’t mesh with the energy.

2. You’ve Got a Plan—and a Do Not Play List:Many DJs spend hours prepping a setlist to match the event’s tone, and some songs are specifically banned by the client. Guests don’t always know the couple really doesn’t want to hear “The Chicken Dance.”

3. It Can Be Distracting:Fielding a flood of requests—especially when you’re beat-matching, managing gear, and emceeing—can disrupt your flow and compromise quality.

Finding a Middle Ground:

Some DJs find success with a compromise:

• Take Requests—But Filter Them: “I’ll see what I can do” gives you control without shutting people down.

• Request Cards at the Table: Guests write them down, and you vet them in batches.

• Use a QR Code Request App: Streamline the process and avoid the constant interruptions.

• Client-Approved Request Lists: Only take requests that align with the client’s preferences.

Let’s Discuss:

We want to know what you think! Whether you’re a fellow DJ, a former bride or groom, or just love a good dance party—what’s your take?

• Should DJs take song requests from guests?

• Have you ever seen a request bring the party to life—or crash it?

• What’s one song you’d always request?

Drop your thoughts in the comments below or hit us up on Instagram @BlueLineDJ. Let’s talk requests—because every great party has its own rhythm, and sometimes, the crowd helps write the playlist.